ON MY REFLECTION IN THE MIRROR
ON MY REFLECTION IN THE MIRROR
In the 16th century, German artisans created an extraordinary engagement ring that unfolded into a miniature astronomical sphere. Known as an armillary sphere ring, it was composed of several interlocking bands that, when opened, formed a working model of the heavens. These rings symbolized both love and cosmic harmony, and some carried inscriptions like
“The whole universe is in your hands.”
These intricate pieces weren’t just decorative-they reflected the Renaissance fascination with science, astronomy, and the idea that human emotion (like love) was tied to the cosmos.This is way too cool 🙏
I spent a lot of time this weekend rereading my Nano from a couple years ago, and I remember now why I stopped where I did….
every ts song is about the ides of march if you try hard and believe in yourself
(via readysetjo)
“I couldn’t heal because I kept pretending I wasn’t hurt.”— Unknown
It’s my birthday, I am 34. So much love and grief is wrapped up in this day every year. This year has had more love than grief, though, and I am very grateful for that.
Jonathan Pike
“everyone is mad at me and they just won’t tell me” —> “no one has said anything about being mad at me and i haven’t done anything to warrant being mad at so if someone is silently fuming about me and not saying anything that’s their problem and actually quite weird of them and i can effortlessly move on with my life”
this took SUCH a huge deal of unlearning because, like so many of you, i came out of a home where being quietly in trouble WAS the default state, and i DID grow up not just with the assumption but borderline religious conviction that Everyone Is Mad At Me, I Am Bad, I Must Exist In A Constant State of Attempting to Pacify The Natural Rage I Inspire In Everyone. and no it actually turns out that my family are the freaks . and yours are too
“this isn’t true because i DEFINITELY silently fume at people in the hopes they’ll figure out what they did and apologize” that’s not good. you shouldn’t do that
“this isn’t true because the ex-friendship that traumatized me ended explosively after they were mad at me and never told me why” that’s not good. they shouldn’t be doing that
“i don’t think this is true because my current friend group is constantly icing me out until i figure out what ive done to upset them and properly apologized without being told” hey thats not good. they should not be doing that
if the peacefulness of your relationship with someone (familial, romantic, friendly, anything) can be destroyed by effective communication/asking them for effective communication, you have got to get out of there. if you can’t get out of there, you’ve got to throw away any ideas about what that person thinks of you because they have their own shit to figure out before they can accurately read anyone else
time changes sneak up on me literally every year, but this year actually no one told me the clocks were moving this weekend… hm.
in other news I have been sick with the plague a cold for a week and I am thrilled that I have tons more energy today and less snot. and its almost 60, all the windows are open and the germs are being aired out.
the will to live is returning!!
Source: thewildwoodmoth